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Dear John,
亲爱的约翰
I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.
我非常认真的考虑了我们的关系并且非常清楚我想要什么
The conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and interaction.
我们的性格和想要的生活方式差别太大，所以我们不能够很好的沟通交流，相亲相爱
This is not about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.
这并不是说我或者你赢了或者输了，或者我们其中之一错了，只是我们的生活方式让我们不能满足彼此，长相厮守。虽然我也曾想让你到我家来，以为我们可以从头来过，经过深思熟虑，我觉得这不是一个明智的做法。我现在很清楚我们是在错误的时间碰到错误的人。
Please forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.
请原谅你自己，也请原谅我，原谅那些我们一起犯下的错误，请你记得，我们彼此都在这个相处的过程中成长了许多。但是，生活还得继续。
So basically what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe.
我写这封信的目的主要是说你不要来我家了，我觉得此时此刻，我需要开始我的新的生活，让你来我家只会徒增烦恼。你要接受我们已经分手的现实并摊开你的内心来感受生活中的美好。
I think we both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.
我觉得我们要忘记过去，感谢我们曾经走过的风风雨雨，并从我们的过去中吸取经验，重新开始。
Dearest John, we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were together, or whether after, through looking back on how we 'operated' together, will serve us in our future relationships.
至爱的约翰，我们一起走过很多，我们在这个过程中都对自己了解了很多。此时此刻，我们已经准备好让我们的关系进入一个新的阶段。现在想想我们在一起和分手后经营爱情的经历，会我们受益匪浅。
It has been my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship built on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized you, in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept her as she is, even while seeing that she is not "perfect".
根据我的经验，所有爱情的终结的同时，另一种层次上的愉悦和建立在我们这段爱情之上的更好的爱情就会到来。所以我相信，会有那么一个人你们彼此深爱着，并在你成长的过程中支持你，但我们现在不是这种状态。我经常指责你挑你骨头，你也同样对我。终会有那么一个对你来说完美的人爱你而且不会挑你毛病，你也挑不出她的毛病。你会接受他爱她，即使她并不完美。
Do not see this as losing something, but rather as having gained knowledge and wisdom... Everything that you learned from us being together, as well as from us being separated, you will be able to put in practice in your next relationship to avoid the traps that we got into.
不要认为你失去了什么，而要觉得自己长了知识和智慧。你从我们在一起和分手中学到的一切，在下一段爱情中可以避免再次走进我们目前的窘境。
EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST, and this is no exception. Trust in yourself, trust in the Universe, trust in the power of Love that rules our lives. Please don’t get into feeling sorry for yourself and wanting to 'end it all'. Rather, thank God for the learning experience, and ask for the openness to recognize the blessings in your life. They are there... open yourself up to being you, accepting yourself completely without judgment, and loving yourself unconditionally.
一切都会好起来的，这次也不例外。相信你自己，相信万能的宇宙，相信主导着我们生活的爱的力量。请不要自暴自弃想要结束自己一切的一切。你应该感谢上帝让我们学到了宝贵的经验，并主动寻找生活中的美好。美好就在你身边，打开你的心扉做回你自己，完全无挑剔地接受自己，完全无条件地爱自己。
I wish you joy, I wish you happiness, I wish you heaven on earth. Please trust in yourself and the Universe enough to take some deep breaths, and start looking to find and create joy in your life. It is there... simply step out and claim it.
我希望你快乐，我希望你幸福，我希望你拥有世上所有的美好。请相信自己、相信上帝，深呼吸，开始寻找并发现生活中的乐趣。乐趣就在那里，伸出手来抓住她吧
Blessings to you... Be the light!
祝你快乐幸福……想开点
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