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【中文标题】有生之年必须要说的40句话
【原文标题】40 Things To Say Before You Die
【登载媒体】福布斯
【原文作者】Jessica Hagy
【原文链接】http://www.forbes.com/sites/jessicahagy/2012/10/04/40-things-to-say-before-you-die/
在你倒在病床上奄奄一息之前，有些话你真的需要说出口。这些话并不复杂，也不那么具有诗意，只是含义深刻的短短的句子。
我希望你真的能开始说这些话。
40，“我想知道。”
给自己一些思考的时间，你才能更好安排做事的时间。
39，“今天真是愉快的一天。”
如果你能说一次这句话，你就可以再说一次、两次、三次……
38，“我相信！”
一个神仙、一项计划、一家公司、一个人、一个主意——你总要相信些什么。
37，“我还没有结束。”
只有你才能决定你的生活何时结束。
36，“谢谢你帮我这个忙。”
没有人可以独自完成任何工作。在人生的每一个十字路口，我们都会得到他人的激励、支持，或者阻挠。
35，“够了！”
食物、饮料、电视剧、鞋子、加班——勇敢地说出你的底限是坚强的表现。
34，“我可以做得更好。”
只要你说出这句话，你就离成功不远了。
33，“我很抱歉。”
不能只说说，你要真的心怀歉意。
32，“我挺过来了。”
危急时刻是精彩人生的关键点。
31，“你太棒了！”
让自己对某个人怀有畏惧感，你会同时感受到坚强和脆弱。
30，“我到家了。”
家是每一次历程的终点和起点，我们每一个人都需要有一个可以称之为“家”的地方。
29，“我尽力了。”
如果真是这样，你做了件了不起的事。
28，“我可以帮助你吗？”
你总需要有人来参加你的葬礼，即使他们不能前来参加，至少他们还会怀念你。
27，“我很幸运。”
你的确很幸运，再没有任何一个人有和你完全一样的福气。那么你将会怎么利用你的好运气呢？
26，“我要那个东西。”
勇敢索取你才能得到渴望的东西，无论是向他人还是想自己索取。
25，“这是错误的！”
如果你从未说过这句话，那么你就体现了这句话。
24“我退出！”
并非所有的事情都是值得的，有时候我们已经深陷泥潭，也没能理出事情的头绪。
23，“多漂亮呀。”
越多关注周围世界的美好，你就会越幸福。
22，“祝贺你。”
毫无嫉妒心地说出这句话，必要时一定要赞扬别人。
21，“我他妈是最棒的！”
记住，有那么多人甘于平庸，而你勇敢地走了出来。
20，“我可以搞定。”
学习能力是所有其它天份的基础。
19，“不要蛋黄酱。”
不要频繁地索取，这样你在有重要需求时才会容易得到支持。
18，“我就是这个样子。”
为了假装版样另外一个人所耗费的神经能量，还不如用来做些别的事情。
17，“出去！”
收回一份邀请总比发出一份邀请要困难，但是为了保护自己免受伤害，总是值得的。
16，“那是我的贡献。”
把自己辛勤工作的成果据为己有，这样在你离开之后，人们才会表示怀念。
15，“让我试试。”
想想吧，如果你从未说过试试之类的话，会是什么样子。
14，“再多告诉我一些。”
不断结识新朋友（接触新知识）会让你在社会中更好地给自己定位。
13，“这是我最喜欢的。”
尽情享受你的最爱，尽可能多说这句话。
12，“这是我辛苦得来的。”
你所拥有的那些不是来自他人馈赠的物品，会有一种自豪的拥有感。
11，“无所谓。”
区别什么是重要的和什么是琐碎的能力，可以挽救你的神志和计划。
10，“我会保守你的秘密。”
被他人相信的感觉实在太好了。
9，“我发现啦！”
最先知道某件事的感觉太美妙了。
8，“出发吧！”
去哪里和你决定开始一趟旅程的激情相比，其实并不那么重要。
7，“我相信你。”
我们都需要盟友，勇敢地表达相互的信任是结盟的基础。
6，“我不知道该怎么做。”
与其假装什么都知道结果让自己陷入尴尬的境地，还不如坦白地承认。
5，“我吓坏了。”
恐惧有独特的作用，它可以让你远离危险和麻烦。所以当你的脊柱有刺痛感时，别不当一回事。
4，“这次肯定没问题了。”
信誓旦旦地说出这句话，就是一种坚定的力量。
3，“我已经决定了。”
自己的主见可以把零散的事情转变为决定命运的行为。
2，“我爱你。”
我们都想说这句话，也想听到别人对我们说这句话。
1，“我能理解。”
掌握真理固然重要，但表达真心的理解更重要。
原文
Before you’re sprawled on your deathbed, there are some things you really have to say. They’re not complicated. They’re not poetry.
They’re just short sentences with big meaning.
I hope they get you talking.
40
“I wonder.”
Give yourself time to think so the time you spend doing things will be better spent.
39
“Today was good.”
If you can say it once, you can say it again. And again. And again.
38
“I believe in this.”
A god, a plan, a company, a person, an idea—you have to put your faith in something.
37
“I’m not finished.”
Only you get to decide when your life’s work is done.
36
“Thank you for making this possible.”
Because nobody does anything alone. We’re driven and supported and thwarted by others at every turn.
35
“That’s enough.”
Food. Drink. Episodes of Law & Order. Pairs of shoes. Overtime. Articulating your own limits is powerful.
34
“I can do better.”
As soon as you say it, you’re that much closer to making it true.
33
“I’m sorry.”
But you can’t just say it; you have to mean it. Really mean it.
32
“I survived.”
Moments of danger are the plot points of an exciting life.
31
“You’re amazing.”
Let yourself be in awe of another person, and you’ll feel strong and weak simultaneously.
30
“I am home.”
Home is every adventure’s final destination and starting point—and we all need one to call our own.
29
“I did my best.”
If this is true, you did something amazing.
28
“How can I help you?”
Because you want people to come to your funeral, and if they can’t make it, at least they’ll miss you.
27
“I’m lucky.”
You are lucky, in a way that no one else is. Now, what are you going to do with your good fortune?
26
“I want that.”
Ask for it: that’s you get what you covet—from others and for yourself.
25
“This is wrong.”
If you never say it, you embody the statement.
24
“I quit.”
Not everything is worthwhile, and sometimes we don’t find that out until we’re in the middle of a rotten situation.
23
“Isn’t this beautiful?”
The more often you notice the gorgeous world around you, the happier you’ll be.
22
“Congratulations.”
Say this without jealously. Practice if you have to.
21
“Damn, I look good.”
You come from a long line of people who convinced others to sleep with them. Remember that.
20
“I can master this.”
The ability to learn is the foundation of every other talent.
19
“Hold the mayo.”
Ask for the little things on a regular basis and you’ll find that it’s easier to make larger demands on occasion.
18
“This is who I am.”
The nervous energy spent pretending to be something you’re not is better spent on practically anything else.
17
“Get out.”
It’s always harder to take back an invitation than to give one, but protecting yourself from personified trouble is always worth the effort.
16
“That was my contribution.”
Own what you’ve worked to create—that’s how your presence will be felt long after you’re gone.
15
“I’ll try it.”
Consider the impotence of never saying you’ll try.
14
“Tell me more.”
Really getting to know someone (or some topic) will help you better triangulate your own place in the world.
13
“This is my favorite thing.”
Enjoy what you love and say this as often as you can.
12
“I earned this.”
There’s a layer of proud ownership over everything you possess that wasn’t merely given to you.
11
“I don’t care.”
Being able to discern between what’s important and what’s trivial is a skill that will save your sanity and your schedule.
10
“Your secret is safe with me.”
Because it feels deep-down good to be trustworthy.
9
“Eureka!”
Being the first to know something is a delicious sensation.
8
“Let’s go!”
Where you’re going often matters far less than the enthusiasm you have for the trip.
7
“I trust you.”
We all need allies, and admitting as much helps forge alliances.
6
“I don’t know how to do this.”
It’s better to admit it and learn than to fake it and embarrass yourself.
5
“I’m terrified.”
Fear is an asset. It can save you from danger and alert you to trouble. Don’t ignore the tingles that run up and down your spine.
4
“This is going to work.”
When this is said truthfully, it’s an assertion of power.
3
“I made a decision.”
Autonomy transforms any activity from a chore to an act of destiny.
2
“I love you.”
We all want to say this, and we all want it said to us.
1
“I understand.”
More important than being right, or being important, is being truly aware.
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