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主笔： JuliaD
日期： 2010/12/15
(Reuters) – "Shall I compare thee to a Summer’s day?," asked Shakespeare. Now, women of the world have replied: "No, just tell me I have beautiful lips."
路透社-莎士比亚问“能否把你比成一个夏日”，现在全世界的女人的回答则是：“不用，只要赞我唇美就行了。”
A new survey of online flirting by dating website Badoo.com has found that the best Internet chat-up line for men to use is: "You have beautiful lips."
一项网上交友网站Badoo.com的线上如何调情的调查显示，在网上男人泡妞最无往不利的句子就是“你的唇真漂亮。”
"We have found the Holy Grail of flirting," said Badoo Director of Marketing Lloyd Price.
“我们终于找到了调情绝招！”Badoo市场总监Lloyd Price如是说。
The site, which boasts 87 million registered users worldwide, analysed the success rates of opening lines from nearly 200,000 online flirtations in 11 languages over the course of one month to come up with a "Compliment Success Index."
这个网站在全球拥有8700万注册用户，通过分析一个月近20万个各种语言的在线调情开场白，他们宣称发现了一个“恭维成功指数排行榜”。
Site users were invited to use one of 12 different chat-up lines. Each complimented an aspect of a woman’s body or appearance. Researchers measured the success rate of each line in two ways: first, their success at prompting any response at all; second, their success at launching a longer conversation — one going back and forth at least four times.
他们请网站用户从12种对女性外表不同部位的赞美之词中随意挑选作为开场白。而研究人员则从两方面评判这一开场白是否奏效：一是看对方是否直接闪人，二是看有没有可能引发出一场比较深入的对话，也就是至少要有4个来回的对谈。
Complimenting a woman’s lips was the most successful overall, but other lines worked best in particular countries.
结果显示对女性嘴唇的赞美普遍来说是最有效的，但也有几个对特定部位的赞美在某些国家很吃香。
American, French, Italian or Brazilian women were more responsive to "You dress beautifully." Brits preferred praise for their legs, Spaniards responded to compliments about their hair, while Germans and Canadians preferred skin praise. Dutch and Portuguese women liked: "You have beautiful ears."
美国、法国、意大利以及巴西的女性比较欣赏的是“你的衣服真漂亮”。英国女则最喜欢听人赞美她们的腿。西班牙女喜欢听赞美她们头发的话，而德国以及意大利女性则更想听到对她们皮肤的赞美。德国以及葡萄牙女性喜欢听“你的耳朵真漂亮。”
Jo Hemmings, a British behavioural psychologist said women responded best to compliments about their lips because it’s a bold approach that seems more personal.
英国行为心理学专家Jo Hemmings,解释说女性听到对其嘴唇的赞美最高兴是因为这种比较大胆的赞美听起来更真实，不是泛泛而谈。
"What many women want is for men to take the initiative and not be wishy-washy," Hemmings said in a statement accompanying the survey. "A lot of men on dating sites send a sort of generic message and women recognize something that hasn’t been customised for them."
“很多女人想要男人做的，是采取主动，但又不能人云亦云。”Hemmings在这项调查的结论中说：“很多交友网站上的男人对每个女人说的都是同样的话，女性能看得出来这种千篇一律的固定台词。”
David Givens, American author of the book, "Love Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship" said the results made sense because women focus a lot of attention on their lips.
《爱的信号：求偶肢体语言实践指南》一书的作者，美国人David Givens则认为这一结果是因为女人对自己的嘴唇很关注。
"From adolescence onwards, they cosmetically adorn their lips, applying lipstick and colours. They have been doing so since ancient Egypt."
“从青春期开始，女性就用口红跟颜色来修饰自己的嘴唇。这一传统在古埃及就已经开始了。” |
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发表于 2010-12-15 14:11
够坦率，够直接！！！
